{"id":1062,"date":"2014-01-11T11:44:34","date_gmt":"2014-01-11T18:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/panam.whensparksfly.org\/?p=1062"},"modified":"2015-01-14T09:19:25","modified_gmt":"2015-01-14T16:19:25","slug":"on-fear-and-travel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/panam.whensparksfly.org\/?p=1062","title":{"rendered":"On fear and travel"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Before we left on our trip, some of our friends and family were concerned for our safety while travelling in Mexico. “Are you bringing a gun?” was one of the more common questions we were asked about our trip. The country hasn\u2019t exactly received the best press over the past few years, with stories of drug cartels and related violence. The effect is noticeable. RV parks for which our guidebook (from 2009) recommends reservations are virtually deserted. Local businesses are struggling as a result.<\/p>\n

I can understand the concern. We’re concerned. We\u2019re driving around in a foreign country where we don\u2019t really speak the language, which happens to be a major conduit for drugs to the USA, and has been in the news recently because of drug-related violence. The \u201cbible\u201d of camping in Mexico, written by the Church couple and seemingly carried by every foreigner traveling in their own car, has a website that provides updates to their most recent print version. There\u2019s a section on safety, which openly describes several armed holdups that have occurred on highways and even in RV parks over the course of the last few years. And we\u2019re bringing our son here? He\u2019s not old enough to have a say in the matter. Is that fair to him?<\/p>\n

But look at CNN: Another school shooting in the nice, safe, USA. And we\u2019re supposed to send him to school? He\u2019s not old enough to have a say in the matter. Is that fair to him?<\/p>\n

According to crime statistics, an American in Mexico is actually less likely to be the victim of a crime than an American in the USA. But what if, against the odds, something was to happen, something that frightened our son a lot? I\u2019d beat myself up for a long time, thinking, why did we have to take him there? If we had just stayed home this never would have happened.<\/p>\n

What if we did just stay home and something horrible happened, say, at his school? I\u2019d still feel horrible, but my conscience would have a free pass because I did what was expected of me. I conformed, and something still happened. It\u2019s just one of those things. Not my fault.<\/p>\n

So perhaps part of what I\u2019m afraid of is not so much the danger itself, but the culpability. The idea that if something happens while we\u2019re \u201caway\u201d it\u2019s my fault but if it happens at home it\u2019s not. That doesn\u2019t sound like a healthy way to think about things. <\/p>\n

Do bad things happen in Mexico, and in other scary foreign countries? Sure, of course they do. Could they happen to us? Yes, they can. Is that a reason to stay at home? We don\u2019t believe so. No matter where we go or don\u2019t go, what we do or don\u2019t do, there is risk involved. Something bad might happen. We think that the rewards of travel outweigh the risks. Like any parent we will do everything we can to keep our son safe. But we also have a responsibility to help him grow into a good person. We believe that travel is one very good way to do that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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